Anthony Edwin “Cholak” Skarja, 66, of Portage, Indiana, passed away on December 24, 2025.
Born on March 1, 1959, in Gary, Indiana, Anthony was the beloved son of Otto and Yvonne Skarja, both deceased, and the cherished brother of Michael, Joseph and Michelle Skarja.
A graduate with an Associate Degree, Anthony built an accomplished career as Head Maître D’ at the Breakers Hotel in Palm Beach, Florida,
where his charm, humor, and quick wit made him unforgettable to guests and colleagues alike.
His luck and love of life were legendary — he won the Florida Lotto twice and celebrated by traveling across the United States in a red Eldorado Cadillac.
Anthony, known to many as “Cholak,” had a generous spirit, always ready to help someone in need.
He loved fine dining, especially Italian and Chinese cuisine, enjoyed good company, and never missed a chance to throw a party.
Whether behind the pool table or sharing laughter with friends, his radiant smile and sense of fun lit every room.
Anthony will be cremated, and a memorial celebration of his life will be held on March 1, 2026, from 2–6 p.m. at the VFW in Lake Station, Indiana.
Cholak was my brother’s nickname. He struggled later in life with issues, but we remember him for all the good times we shared—the Disney trip, the “Good Ship Upchuck” cruise, parties, and all the crazy things we did growing up. Love you, Cholak, in our hearts forever. 💕