Gary Joseph Kalil, a devoted Navy veteran, beloved dad, loving husband, and cherished grandfather, passed away peacefully on February 22, 2024, with his family by his side. Gary was born on August 14, 1942 in Michigan City, IN to Edith and Joseph Kalil. Gary attended Michigan City Elston High School.
Gary proudly served in the United States Navy as a fighter pilot, fearlessly navigating the skies in an A-4 Skyhawk and F-11 Tiger, skillfully landing on aircraft carrier flight decks using the iconic tailhook system. His decorated service, dedication, and bravery, including time served during the Vietnam War, will forever be remembered and honored.
Beyond his military career, Gary found joy in various passions and hobbies. He delighted in meticulously crafting and operating his model train set, finding solace in its rhythmic movements. An avid supporter of his family, Gary could often be found cheering from the sidelines or front row for his children and grandchildren. In quieter moments, he found peace in birdwatching and cherished the simple pleasure of spending quality time with loved ones.
Gary shared a deep bond with his wife, Brenda, of 51 years, with whom he embarked on countless adventures, including memorable road trips to distant destinations like Jackson Hole, Wyoming, and around the Great Lakes. Together, they created a lifetime of cherished memories filled with love, laughter, and companionship.
Gary will be dearly missed by his devoted wife, Brenda Kalil, his loving children Heather (Kevin) Penziol, Shane (Molly) Kalil, and Brooke (Wil) Kalil-Silva, and his adoring grandchildren Rylee (Joshua) Kruck, Reghan Penziol, Tristan Kalil, Eilley Kalil, Liam Kalil, and Xander Kalil-Silva. He is also survived by his sister, Gayle Mason, of Mineral Wells, Texas. He leaves behind a legacy of love, strength, and unwavering devotion to family.
A celebration of Gary’s remarkable life will be held on Sunday, March 10th, at 1:00 PM at the VFW in Laporte. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Dunes Hospice, their care and compassion was a blessing to Gary and his family.
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Gary’s memory will forever live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him. May he rest in peace, knowing he was deeply cherished and admired by many.